Bad Luck Friday

This past Friday June 4th, was not my best day at all. My brother got my bike stolen by some Mexican(s) while going to his baby mothers house at 3am to get his son food and clothes. Who told him to leave the bike outside so late? Matter fact, who told him he can take my bike out the house without my permission. So now he owes me $170. I had the bike for two years and barely rode it. It was like new.

So anyway, Friday morning I had to meet him to get my money. He tells me he only has about $80 to give me. I said fine, you owe me $90 more. After he leaves, I decided to get on my mother’s home computer to do some homework discussions. I was parked right outside but I completely forgot that there is alternate side parking on my mothers block. There’s no parking on her side at 9:30 am and I received a ticket at 9:37am. I was so pissed but I was afraid too. I didn’t know what to tell my uncle. The car and plates are in his friends name and he was so angry that I got a parking ticket. Although it was only a fine for $45 I wanted to pay it right away. However, my uncle told me the ticket probably is not in the system yet and that I should wait about 10 days before I pay it. It was minor but I thought to myself, there is a first time for everything.

Then I went to work that same day. It could have been better if I didn’t have a serious migraine or this wicked cold that I caught. Nonetheless, my day at work was okay. I had to inform my supervisor that I wouldn’t be coming in on Monday June 7th, because that is the day of my mothers Graduation. She was fine with me taking the day off. But once I asked my mother what time was her graduation ceremony starting on Monday, she looked at me like I was crazy. Come to find out the actual date of her graduation is Thursday June 17th, but it wasn’t my fault. My mother has been telling me the wrong date all this time for almost a month that it will be held on June 7th. All I could do is shake my head in disbelief. I told my mom that I already took the day off and she said for me to go ahead to work anyways.

Then as I sat there and think to myself, all I could say was “what a day” and lay back on the couch lost in my own thoughts. Now I have to make everything right.

Laugh Until It Hurts

I wake up this morning with the most sore throat I can ever imagine. I can't eat solid foods because I have a really hard time swallowing. I can barely talk and my throat hurts whenever I laugh. I don't know how I am going to heal this but I hope it wont hurt this much tomorrow when I need my voice the most. At work! Especially being that I work with children.

It's hard to believe that laughing is what caused all of this to happen. I lost my voice before from screaming so much at Six Flags Great Adventures Theme Park. It took almost three days just for me to recover from a sore throat. Today I tried using a chloraseptic spray to see if it will somewhat relieve my sore throat but no luck. I was offered alcohol, salt water with lemon, and ginger but I am afraid to take either or because I believe it will only burn my throat. I don't like taking medicine and I am not quite sure every home remedy works so normally I suck it up and deal with the pain. Sleeping it off usually is my best resort.

I will be lying to myself if I said I regret laughing so hard, but how can someone resist laughing? If you're having fun and especially when you are in the company of my silly brothers and friends I can guarantee you will laugh just as hard as I did. But maybe, yesterday really took the cake. I have a feeling it is bound to happen all over again sooner than later.

Creepy Centipedes

OMG! Did I just see the biggest and most ugliest centipede in my life! I hate those things. It creeps me out to the bone. I just saw one huge grayish brown centipede the size of my index finger crawl right across my bedroom floor. I screamed, squealed and jumped on my computer chair so quick you could have sworn I saw a rat or something worse.

I called out for help and my cousin came into my bedroom. She asked what happened with freight because she heard my screams. I told her what it was and where it went then she tried to kill it but it had already ran off somewhere. I was still standing on my computer chair. So my cousin called for help and got my uncle to come kill the damn thing. For some reason, he has a fascination with killing centipedes. I don't know what it is but I am just glad that he isn't scared of them. He got the broom stick from the kitchen and searched for it by removing my dressers to the side in search to see where it had ran off to.

Unfortunately, my uncle must have came a bit too late because we couldn't find the ugly creature anywhere. What we decided to do is spray my room with Insect Control in hop9es of killing the centipede. As I write this blog, I had already put my shoes back on and stayed on my computer chair to type this. I can honestly say, I am afraid to leave this room or to move to go anywhere. I don't want that thing to crawl out of his little sneaky hiding area and find a new home within this home that I live in.

This is my turf and I refuse to be scared off because of some creepy looking insect! I HATE CENTIPEDES!!!

My Addictions & Obsessions

1. Books

2. Shoes

3. My Hair

4. My Nails


5. Knowledge

6. Clothes

7. The Internet

8. Purses/Pocket Books

9. Phone Accessories

10. My Weight

List of Things I Will Never Do

Below is a list of things that I will never do or have any intensions on doing in my lifetime. If I do however, break this promise, it will not be done intentionally. It will be due to a health problem or a life or death crises.

1. Indoor Tanning
2. Scuba Diving
3. Liposuction
4. Get Breast Implants
5. Get a Nose Job
6. Pierce my Lip, Nipples, Clitoris, Eyebrows
7. Tattoo my Arms or Face
8. Get an Abortion
9. Date on Reality Television
10. Change my Sex (Become a Transgender)

List of Crazy Things I'll Do

This is a List of things that I will consider doing only if the opportunity were given to me. If something on this list doesn’t seem like it is a crazy thing to do that is because to me I am either scared of doing it or have a fear of something that involves doing that activity such as water or boats. I am very much afraid of big bodies of water and although dolphins are my favorite sea creatures, I have never been close to them. Hence, my fear of swimming with them.

1. Sky Diving
2. Bungee Jumping
3. Kayaking
4. Swim with Dolphins
5. Speed Boat
6. Jet Skiing
7. Water Skiing
8. Parasailing
9. Rock Climbing
10. NASCAR Racing
11. Pose for Play Boy

Barefooted in NYC

Today I was in Manhattan and I could not believe what I saw. A man wearing jeans and a backpack came right off the train walking with no shoes on his feet. I was so disgusted. How can someone walk the streets of New York City barefooted? I thought maybe he was mugged for his shoes on the train. Then I said out loud to myself “I feel sorry for him”. it wasn’t surprising that everyone acted normal once they seen this man walking barefooted though. Its Manhattan and there’s a lot of crazy things you may see so that was nothing compared to some other outrageous sights. At least he was bearable to look at. I was confused as to why he had no shoes on his feet anyway but I figured maybe he took them off and is trying something new. Something of change or some form of spiritual process to become a better person in life. Then again, maybe he wanted to act normal and not send off an alert to frighten anyone while walking down the street. The police probably would have stopped him and arrested him. I don’t know but it was pretty gross. I know I would never do that.

Asthma FREE

I don’t have asthma and lord knows I do not need to have it. I know so many people who has to deal with it. Friends and family relatives. You can literally identify some random people that you may see walking down the street that may have asthma as well just from the way they talk or if you can get close enough to hear their breathing as they walk. Its sad because asthma is not something you would want to play with. Overall, mostly people who are over weight are the ones who are diagnose with this common breathing difficulty. I hope that my children will not be victims of asthma or myself. I thank god that no one in my immediate family has asthma either. that’s how I know it is not a family health problem that can be passed down. Not saying that we are perfect but everyone has their flaws. I don’t know how I would be able to deal with knowing I have asthma and trying to help keep it under control. It seems like a lot of work. With that being said, I plan on eating healthy and exercising as much as possible on a daily basis to stay in shape. Sounds like a good plan to me J

Being Mis-Informed

Okay, so as I wrote in my previous blog at simplylorin.blogspot.com/ I explained how I recovered from my stomach virus. I also went on to explain how I missed class during that day. My course of action was to drop the class and pick it up next session but unfortunately that was wasn’t the case. Because I was mis-informed by the Devry staff I came too late to drop the course. However I was able to pick up another class next session which is cool. But I had to withdraw from this MATH221 class and which I didn’t want to do because then I will have to pay a percentage of that class. If I had dropped it, I wouldn’t have to pay anything and it wouldn’t show up on my transcripts that I had dropped it. Now my transcripts will show that I withdraw from the class with a letter “W”. I guess the only good thing is that it wouldn’t affect my GPA. Thank Goodness because as of right now I am maintaining an average of 3.65 and I do not intend on falling any lower than a 3.5. So for further references, I now know that I must drop a class within the first two weeks before the class meets a second time. This will definitely not happen again.

Foul Living

I cannot stand a dirty house! Have you ever been in someone else’s apartment and they are just the dirtiest people you have come across. I mean to the point where you cant even stand in their place to breathe the filthy air they live in. let alone to lean up on their wall. And you know its bad when they live in a apartment building and the elevators are cleaner and more sanitary then their own apartment. I know of so many people that can care less what they house look like. Then they have the nerve to dress all cute and flashy out in the streets as if they sh*t don’t stink. Can you believe them? That is why I keep my distance from people who lives that way. I don’t visit people homes that often either. If I do, trust me, ill be waiting outside where I can breathe some fresh air and not the stench of dirty laundry and a weeks load of dishes in the kitchen sink. Sooner or later your friend will get the picture when they call you on your cell phone and say “girl, why you don’t come hang out at my place anymore?” and you reply “have you seen your place?” I don’t care if that person lives alone or have children, it doesn’t matter because there is no excuse for living in such filth. When they catch H1N1, or have little mice as pets and roaches the size of crickets, I’m sure that will set them straight once and for all.

Passing Opportunities

I don’t understand how someone is talking about buying a car before they get their license. I’ve been telling my cousin for the longest to get it over with. She is 18 already and still listening to what other people say. I try setting a good example. I got my permit at 16. Juniors license at 17 and bought my own car 2 months before my 18th birthday. I don’t know what her excuse is for not taking driving lessons yet, but I think its because she is afraid. She doesn’t want to drive in the snow, she doesn’t want to learn how to drive stick shift and she doesn’t want anything big. Not like she can drive it anyway being that she is only 4’11 tall. Hopefully she will stop punking up and start wising up. Or else she’ll be letting the opportunity pass her by wishing that she could’ve had what everyone else has already.

Gay Men

Trust and believe me when I say I do not want to know or even think of a reason why men are gay. It just doesn’t make any sense. I mean, I look at like this, you all have the same body parts. But I guess it takes a man to know what a man really wants. Only a man knows all of a next mans g-spots and how to please them mentally, emotionally and physically. Same thing goes for the lesbians, I guess. It doesn’t matter their sexuality. I don’t care whether they are gay, straight, confused, bisexual whatever, as long as they keep it to themselves. I want no part of it. As you know how the saying goes, “Don’t ask, Don’t Tell”. In this case, that is exactly what I mean.

Cancer

I’m not going to say I do not care about cancer. But I don’t want to think about it. What I mean is, I don’t want to think of ever getting cancer. I know as I get older in my forties, I have to do yearly doctor checkups for breast cancer. that’s okay because I would want to be aware of what is going on with my body. I don’t want to think of getting any other type of cancer either because it all causes death. I don’t ever want to have to face it and I send my sympathy for all those who have it. I do however, support those who have breast cancer, by having the pink ribbon hanging in my car and stickers on my notebook. Those who have it should not be ashamed, but be proud that your are still living. I know there are some people who have it much worse and have to take meds on a daily. Its heartbreaking, but I guess you cant really prevent. Or can you?

Fears of Rodents

One of my fears are rodents. I don’t like anything that is small or big round and furry. I hate mice/rats, possums, hamsters and ferrets. I am pretty sure there are many more hairy creatures that I do not know the names of or haven’t come across. Which I am hoping that they never come across my path. They just really creep me out and give me goose bumps. Even right now as I write this blog. That’s why I am ending it short. Sorry readers.

Psychic Readings

Do you believe in psychic readings? I have never believed in it because I think it is not real. Another reason is because I do not want to know what is headed for me in the future if it is real. I rather live life in the moment. The only readings that I am into are astrology signs. I am interested in the suns and moons and how everything relates to another. As far as psychic reading and palm readings, it seems fake. I am usually open to a lot of things but this is one can of worms that I prefer to leave closed. I think that palm readings may be a bit accurate because it is based on your energy and your vibes. But I'm still not into the whole crystal ball thing. Especially the Gypsy's. Have you heard some of their accents? You can tell that they are SO phony!

Murderer's, Rapists, & Pedophiles

I am not curious to know what is going on in the mind of a murderer/ serial killer, rapists, or pedophile. The reason is because I do not want to think about all the bad things they will do to someone of innocence. Its sad yet sick. Do I feel sorry for them? NO! they need to be put in jail for 25 years to life. Honestly, I believe in the Hammurabi code. An eye for an Eye. In some countries, that is how the law works. But just to always be safe and prepared, especially as a young beautiful female as myself, I carry pepper spray at all times. It was given to me by my older brother. I’m glad that he did, because I realized that there will be times that he will not always be there to protect me. If you want to know what is going through these Sickos minds, just make sure you are prepared for whatever comes your way. I am tired of seeing so much bad news all over television about innocent people being killed, raped, robbed, and molested. Its just not right. Where’s the Justice?!!!

Natural Birth and Going Organic

I understand that many women don’t want to feel pain while going into labor, but do they realize how much it affects the newborn? Yeah, sure the baby will be on its way in any minute or hour but in that short amount of time there can be birth defects. I don’t know much about natural birth but I do know that it is very beneficial for the baby. So is breast feeding. Mothers have to realize that they wont have that small frame forever and that sooner or later, you have to make that sacrifice for your child. Your baby needs all the nourishments from your body that you can possibly give. This will also prevent diseases and infections from all the artificial baby products these companies are developing. Going organic is a very old fashion way to go about things but not all technology is better for our children of the future.

I am not a mother as of yet, but I was just pointing out some flaws mothers do when preparing for their newborn. Especially first time mothers. Its not my place to tell anyone what to do, but if no one asks, then you don’t tell.. SHhh…

Implants

Yes. A question many men ask themselves: are they real? Well more than likely they're aren't. But who cares? I wouldn't abuse my body by getting all types of surgery done. Most women know the downfalls of having breast implants, buttocks, liposuction, face lifts etc. The truth is, its not doing your body any good. So why do women do it to themselves anyway you ask? Well that's simple I guess. They're living in the moment. But one day all of that is going to flop! once they hit their golden years, you figured by then they lived their life and did everything they ever wanted to do in their time. However other people choose to treat their bodies is their business. All I know is my body is a temple, and I will cherish it. I don't care if you sag and look like a walking bean bag when you get older.

Surviving as an Illegal Immigrant

What would you do to survive if you were an illegal immigrant in the United States? The only thing that comes to mind is to dance as a stripper. Question is, will you put your pride to the side to make money for you and your children? If you had no one to help you in your situation, how will you manage? How do you think you will be better off? Now we know that you don't want your children caught up in the system and probably taken away from you, so there's some sacrifices you're going to have to make. I'm not asking for any single mothers to kiss and tell but I do want you to put your priorities first. We all have our different opinions, but at the end of the day, mouths have to be fed. So what's it gonna be?

Trustworthy Friends & Long Distance Relationships

I have friends and then I have associates. I have one boyfriend and only one bestfriend. I choose to have only one bestfriend because its very hard to trust people. I am not very open to making new friends due to prior relationships I've had. But I can proudly say I trust my boyfriend and my bestfriend. However, my bestfriend lives in Georgia and I am all the way in New York. We have been the bests of friends ever since elementary school. I know some people would lose their connections with long distance relationships but not I. I make it my duty to keep my friends that I have because I know what they're about and I know what to expect from them. The same thing with my boyfriend. I don't have to worry about my bestfriend going behind my back and trying to get close to my boyfriend. Other friends that I have, they're not so smart. They have friends who will hide things from them. some will be so deceiving and sleep with their own friends boyfriend. I tell you, some people you may think are your friends really aren't. You have to observe everyone and everything. Well at least I have nothing to worry about. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and there's no way my bestfriend will betray me like that. You should think about having long distance relationships. Its fun to travel and... you can keep your friend away from your man. :-) Pretty smart huh?

Craigslist Scams

Lately, I've been looking at cars for sale on the Craigslist website. I figured since I sold my old car via craigslist I can buy a vehicle as well. However that's not the case. Its taking me awfully a long time to purchase a vehicle because there are so many scams. I've notice many people are using the war in Iraq as a sobbing story as for the seller not to allow the buyer to see the vehicle. Instead they use excuses such as they're not in town right now and to be safe, lets use ebay. Im telling you it is bullshit! The thing is I am not as close to curious to find out why there are so many scams on the internet. For one, I'll never fall for one. I've done my research and I'm still learning how to catch a fraud. I'm a college student for crying out loud. Who do they think they're fooling? But if anyone should know, I am interested in any vehicle that is a 2001 or better.

Nissan: Murano, Maxima, Pathfinder, Altima
Honda: Pilot, Odyssey
Audi 2.7t

If anyone has a reliable car and willing to sell or knows someone who is, I do have $3,300 cash. If so, send me an email at QnzAriesLaLa@aol.com

Steroids in the Gym

Hmmm, is it true that in every gym there is at least one guy who either sells steroids or knows someone who does? I don’t expect to get much response on this post due to privacy and other related issues but it was just something that was bought to my attention by my professor. Although, I wouldn’t be surprised because there are many professional athletes who uses steroids. Such as NFL players and Olympians. Besides, these days everything is full of un-natural ingredients to boost your stamina and performance. Drinks like 5-hour power, red bull, and other protein shakes from GNC stores.

For The Love of Money

I am not curious to know why people go on television shows to broadcast their personal problems they're having at home. People go on TV and make fools of themselves. Why embarass yourself and your entire family on live TV? The reality shows aren't what they use to be anymore because everything is scripted. I understand you get paid for acting buck-wild to make the show entertaining but its really not worth it. Especially on these 3 top rated shows such as:

1. Maury
2. Jerry Springer
3. Steve Wilkos Show

I mean don't these people have anything else better to do besides acting ignorant.

Truth Hurts

Alright, here's the situation: a mother has to come up with a story to tell her child who her father is. Reason is because the father is either incarcerated, dead or the mother isn't sure who the actual father is. Now she randomly chooses one of her closest Guy friends to claim the title as "Daddy". The little girl grows up and this friend of the mother's is the only father figure in the child's life.

Why can't the parent tell the truth about her father? She figures by lying to her child was the best thing to do to keep her child happy and feel safe. Sooner or later the mother and her "guy friend " gets in an argument and it blows up in the child's face that her father isn't her real father. The child is now confused and the parent has to come clean then tell her child everything. However, this would've been avoided by telling the truth. Whether the child's real father was dead or alive, the truth would have been the best thing for her to know. Who cares if the child is too young to understand? Now her daughter will feel hatred and betrayed all because of not knowing the truth. As a result the child goes searching for her biological father. This is probably the worst thing mothers can do, because when the truth comes out, it will hurt. It's like taking a knife and stabbing your child in the back.

Its always someone else who can't handle the truth, when in reality its the person who started the long line of lies. My advice to my readers is to never live in denial. All things hidden in the dark will come to light and you will have to face the truth someday. So start NOW!

No Ambition = The Perfect Loser

Ambition to me, means wanting to succeed. In reality, who doesn't want to succeed? In this tough economy there are millions of people who are struggling just to make ends meet. People who lost their jobs due to many cuts and as a result, this lead to many families to be on the short end of the stick. Left alone to hang dry. However, some decided there was a need to make change and be apart of something of great importance. The reason I am writing this blog is because I was one of those inspiring people who inspired many others to go back to school to further their education. For instance, my mother of 5 children decided to further her career in the medical field to become a registered nurse. I have a few friends who are also attending college. The difference is the motivation I have to keep moving foward and to show support to my family and friends. I have a part time job and I juggle my school work with spending time with my three different families. My question is, Why is it that I can pass my classes with passing grades and manage a overwhelming lifestyle meanwhile my people I know who don't have jobs cannot keep up their grades? How is it possible for a person to not want good grades. With all the awards and scholarships being given to those who have great marks. Right now I am in my second semester at 17 years of age with a 4.0 GPA. I don't mean to brag, but if I can do it as busy as I may be, why can't others? It really makes no sense to me why people think they can't do the same. Matter fact there's no such word as CAN'T. Anything is possible if you put your best foot foward. I try my best to motivate others, but how can you help someone who doesn't want to help themselves? I wish the best for those who have no ambition to succeed in life.

10 Things I Am Not Curious About Learning More

1. 2012
2. Flu Vaccinations
3. Food Shortage
4. Going Blind
5. Financial Debt / Going for Broke
6. Die While Giving Birth
7. Being Stranded On A Desert Without Food or Supplies
8. Paralysis
9. If New York Will Flood Over Like New Orleans
10. Deciding Which Love One To Live Or Die